I thought I should repost this:
This post is a disclaimer.
I started this blog so that I could put out to you things that have helped me along the way. I do not necessarily agree with everything in every article that is written but if I post them I feel there are enough valuable points that bear listening to.
I think it is important to clarify that if you have a husband who has an abuse problem (alcohol, pornography, drugs or physical abuse) then these principles do not necessarily apply and may even cause some harm. So you need to decide, or get a good holy priest to help you decide, whether you need professional help.
BUT…if you are married to a regular wonderful man who is part virtue, part fault….be they annoying, in-your-face type faults, then the principles laid out in these articles can apply to you.
I also realize that it is not all the wife’s job to “fix” things. But when it comes right down to it, we can only change ourselves.