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I thoroughly enjoy Winnie-the-Pooh! And I find Eeyore a loveable pessimist. He really is very funny how he can be so negative…all the time, even when he is trying to be an optimist!

Most of us have Eeyore moments. Some of us more than others, depending on our temperament and our environment. That’s why Eeyore can be endearing. We relate!

In this article from Charlotte Siems, she helps us to see those Eeyore moments for what they are and choose the higher road!

How Not to be an Eeyore
Charlotte Siems
As a young mom I remember wondering “How do I change my attitude?”

There had to be a better way than getting mired in discouragement every day.
 Thoughts took me wherever they wanted to go and I went along for the ride. 

It felt like that was just the way things were, since I wasn’t blessed with a cheerful personality and an easy life.

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I felt like Eeyore in the Winnie the Pooh stories:
“Good morning, Pooh Bear,” said Eeyore gloomily. “If it is a good morning,” he said. “Which I doubt,” said he.
“Why, what’s the matter?”
“Nothing, Pooh Bear, nothing. We can’t all, and some of us don’t. That’s all there is to it.”
“Can’t all what?” said Pooh, rubbing his nose.
“Gaiety. Song-and-dance. Here we go round the mulberry bush.”
It took years to realize that the power to change my attitude was in my own choices.
Of course we can’t control which thoughts pop into our heads. But we can control which thoughts to dwell on.
WHICH WILL IT BE?
Watching the clock and letting self-pity and resentment overtake me when the baby wakes up crying every two hours?
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Extending grace to a tiny person who hasn’t lived on the earth for very long and realizing the truth that this season of babyhood is very short and less sleep isn’t going to kill me, especially when I don’t think that it will?

WHICH WILL IT BE?

Sighing with martyrdom and self-righteousness when I have to pick up my husband’s dirty clothes, slinging them in anger for good measure?
OR
Thinking affectionately of this man who works hard and being grateful I have a husband to pick up after?
WHICH WILL IT BE?
Feeling annoyed and snappish when children don’t follow my nicely planned homeschool schedule?
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Realizing that the interruptions and imperfections are exactly the life that God is sending to me today, and staying aware that even the homeschool years are a fleeting season.
Note that the circumstances in each scenario didn’t change. Only my choice of thoughts.
Our first thought could very well be the aggravation-resentment-self-pity one.
But at that point we get to choose which thoughts to focus on and strengthen.
 It’s our choice which thoughts to bring to the front of our minds and water and fertilize and carefully tend.
The truth is, sometimes we don’t WANT to choose gracious, loving thoughts. It seems unfair. Picture5
We’d rather focus on ourselves and our rights, with a bit of foot-stomping and crossed arms. Waahh.
But of course we can’t escape the inevitable reaping of what we sow.
When we scatter seeds of self-pity and resentment, we harvest bitterness and grouchiness and all manner of ugliness.
If you don’t want to think positive, that’s okay.
Just get rid of all the negative thoughts in your mind and whatever is left will be fine.
Choose your thoughts wisely, for as a woman thinks in her heart, so is she.
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We don’t want our family to remember us as a stressed-out, grouchy, sad-faced, aggravated Mom.
You CAN change your attitude. Nobody wants to be an Eeyore, so don’t think like one.